I wasn't suggesting that our engines were not capable of full throttle operation. I routinely use full throttle when passing or climbing a short grade when I feel that more power would prevent a downshift. Transmission downshifts are not entirely free of wear and tear. Many years ago I was contemplating the purchase of a new truck with a Detroit 8V 92 engine. Detroit provided a spreadsheet which showed that the engine, when set at full rated horsepower, had a 40% shorter mean time between overhauls than when the engine was set at its lowest factory horsepower and rpm setting. In those days overhauls typically meant mean time between catastrophic failures such as broken crankshafts, dropped valves, piston separation, broken rods sticking through blocks, etc. Diesel engines have come a long way since then.
I agree with Richard that a pyrometer is a good indicator of engine load and added one to my rv. I also use an engine oil temperature gauge as it indicates the real long term operating temp of the engine and whether it is tracking up or down.