Thanks Rick. I didn't think about turning on the headlights; I'll give that a try the next time. I agree with you about not bypassing the relay.
BTW, I looked today and I don't appear to have a solid state battery isolator, just a plain, old-fashioned, White-Rodgers relay. There are two trigger wires going to it, and I assume it is used to parallel the battery banks both for charging from the alternator and for the battery boost function.